Marriage.................

Arrange or Love....?????
In Arrange Marriages,if something goes wrong you have the guts to pinpoint your mom dad(i mean the family is responsible)but if its a Love marriage,they will just say that sweetzz we informed you before only that this relationship wont work too long.
But see what matters is the destiny and not whether it was ARRANGE or LOVE.
Here,I wanna ask you something is it really important to marry.....???
How can strangers think of marrying each other...???When people know each other so well and then also they fail in carrying a relationship then how can you expect them to mingle along so well.I do not say that relationships before marriages are good or carry some importance until and unless you are totally into and are planning your future with each other.(Sorry to say this,but now-a-days people are in relationships and all just for FUN,no commitments,no responsibilities nothing)People say that we were together since 4-5 years or more but when it came to marrying they were apart..y??
So what's the guaranty that these two strangers will carry forward happily as i have seen many a times these marriages are just carried forward for the sake of it or after marriage responsibilities;these relationships usually become burden which they learn to carry along due to Indian culture.Although people are westernized still the mind set remains the same,divorce and all are not their cup of tea.You must have seen many boys saying that our girl should be hot,stunning,eye-catchy but when it comes to wife they should be decent,sophisticated,reserved (double standards).
Even i do not wanna marry,as i can not trust anyone(koi kisi ka nahi hota)but when it comes to Maa and Paa i say that lets just leave everything over God.But then where's my happiness.I do not say this that if i will marry some one i will spoil his life too but still....
MAY BE NOW IT'S MY TURN TO PAY BACK for their love,affection and what all they did for me.
Have you ever thought,before we were conceived they wanted us;before we were born they loved us,before we were here they were ready to die for us...so can not we do some small things which gives them happiness....