People say that time helps, but it doesn't really.I still miss her just as much now, as I did then. I still remember the day clearly.
I hate how people tell you that they know how you feel.They don't know how you feel. They might have an idea about how you might feel, but they're not you, they have no idea what's running through your head.
If tears could build a stairway and thoughts a memory lane..I'd walk right up to heaven
and bring you home again.My heart still active in sadness And secret tears still flow
But now I know you want us to be strong enough like you use to be..and want us to remember all the happy times.
God knows why with that chilling touch gathers those we love so much..
Few lines 4u dii...
I wanna touch your hand,
I wanna see your eyes,
I wanna be your friend,
I wanna share my lies,
I wanna show you my life,
I wanna show you my love,
I wanna show you how I cry,
But your so high above,
How is god treating you,
I hope he understands,
That when I get up there,
He will let us hold our hands,
Monday, March 29, 2010
Wednesday, March 3, 2010
They gave me LIFE...but it's my LIFE
Life and Marriage are similar in many ways.Firstly,there are no guarantees in either.Secondly, there are no fixed rules for living a good life or ‘making’ a good marriage that applies to all people.And both LIFE AND MARRIAGE throws up surprises.
When our opinions differ to our parent's they usually tell us that "we will alway's be your parents and you alway's be a child." However, are parents ALWAYS right? Given that parents too are human beings, is there a chance they too could be wrong or make the wrong decision(s)… Particularly when it comes to choosing a life-mate?
We have been in a nation with a close-knit family structure where parents play a large hand – and till much later in their children’s adult lives – in decision-making. From the subjects children choose in school, to the college they go to, who their friends are, to living arrangements, marriage and even when naming grandchildren, parents are/ have been an integral part of our decisions. Often when children – now adults – take decisions without consulting their parents, it is taken as an ‘insult’ or a sign of disregard.
When parents oppose your choice of spouse, it is never an easy decision; and sometimes it is not possible to keep all parties happy. In such times, it is important to know and answer: Is your decision a sensible one and will you be happy? Often taking a decision based on personal happiness is deemed ‘selfish’, however one needs to remember that till the time you are not happy, you cannot make others happy.
When our opinions differ to our parent's they usually tell us that "we will alway's be your parents and you alway's be a child." However, are parents ALWAYS right? Given that parents too are human beings, is there a chance they too could be wrong or make the wrong decision(s)… Particularly when it comes to choosing a life-mate?
We have been in a nation with a close-knit family structure where parents play a large hand – and till much later in their children’s adult lives – in decision-making. From the subjects children choose in school, to the college they go to, who their friends are, to living arrangements, marriage and even when naming grandchildren, parents are/ have been an integral part of our decisions. Often when children – now adults – take decisions without consulting their parents, it is taken as an ‘insult’ or a sign of disregard.
When parents oppose your choice of spouse, it is never an easy decision; and sometimes it is not possible to keep all parties happy. In such times, it is important to know and answer: Is your decision a sensible one and will you be happy? Often taking a decision based on personal happiness is deemed ‘selfish’, however one needs to remember that till the time you are not happy, you cannot make others happy.
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